Flirting With Body Language
Men are Visually Stimulated
When flirting with men, 90% of it should be in your body language, not verbal. Men don’t respond to words, they really don’t. Take the picture to the right. Notice how she is looking over her shoulder. This is powerful. Men are captivated by innocence, and she has that innocent look on her face.
Obvious, bold flirty moves aren’t that affective. It doesn’t reach a man on his subconscious level. That is why your posture, your walk, the way you stand and sit are so important. You walk or posture alone can determine if a man sees you as approachable. Shoulders back, relaxed, standing or sitting straight not slouched is how you want to be.
Lets say you are at a bar chatting with a guy on your left. Turn your body into his slightly. Cross your right leg over your left leg slowly and have your right foot almost, but not quite brush his outer calf. He will notice and he won’t know why. Reach over and lightly touch his lower left arm and smile, then move it away. These are subconscious triggers that tell him there is a woman sitting next to him that finds him attractive. It’s all about how you make him feel.
Another powerful tip that does have to do with words is about one word you can use to get his attention. That word is his own name. Have you ever heard that nothing is sweeter from the lips of another than the sound of your own name. It’s true. Call him by name. If you don’t do this, you are missing out on something very powerful. If it feels uncomfortable for you, practice it. Call everyone by name when conversing. When my girlfriends call me, I always answer the phone with something like, “Well hello Susie Q”. It’s second nature to me now.
That one sentence I just mentioned can open a door. If you don’t know his name, find it out. Next time you see him, just say, “Well hello Sam”. Very effective and disarming, especially if he knows he didn’t tell you his name.
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